Elena writes: “Hi Susan, thank you always for your wisdom! How do you tell someone you met through dating apps that you'd like to explore more and see other people before deciding to enter into a relationship and give it a label? What if we really like this person but aren't yet sure if they're the one but also don't want to lose them if we say we want to explore more? I am very new to dating apps. Thanks x”
In today's online dating world, it's smart to keep your options open when chatting with someone new. Even if you love them, you don't really know them. Before you close the doors to other interested candidates, it's wise to be very clear about what this person is looking for and how interested they are in you.
Do they text you regularly? Are they motivated to meet you? Have you been on a few dates already and feel good about where this is going? If you can't answer yes to these questions, then it's time to have a discussion with this person and let them know that you will be seeing other people.
Communication is essential. Be clear about your intentions and boundaries. It's about finding the right balance between exploring new connections and staying true to yourself.
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00:00 Presentation
00:39 Question from viewers
01:23 Early dating decisions
01:57 Communicating goals and “This is the beginning”
02:13 How to say it
04:49 Pace determines viability
06:29 Manage their stay on the applications
06:57 Negotiation
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